Are there flying types that would be good therapy pokemon for someone with anxiety?

Well, aside from the usual go-to service pokémon that is togetic and togekiss, swablu and altaria are perhaps the most popular, due to their soothing feathers and equally soothing voices, coupled with their level of comfort and calmness around humans. Altaria especially are good choices, as not only can their wings double as stim toys (this doesn’t hurt them), but also, for those who suffer from anxiety and don’t mind physical contact, an altaria is rather effective in creating a sense of safety for their partners by enveloping them with its wings and humming a calming melody.

The only other pokémon often used for this purpose is jumpluff, whose cotton hands and slow, graceful movements through the air are often said to be rather calming in nature. However, it should be noted that as a pokémon that relies on spore-based techniques (and that stores such spores in its hands), jumpluff may not be effective for those who have allergies.

Beyond that, I admit that the selection for flying-types is rather limited, although anyone can train their pokémon to be companions if they have enough patience and time.

I live next to a human abandoned house and there is a lone gengar living there. I know this because sometimes it comes over to mine and as soon as it sees me or my Pokémon or gets very scared and leaves. So… that leaves me with the question when you see Pokémon like gengar and alakazam in the wild, Pokémon who can’t evolve unless traded, does that mean they were abandoned by their trainer?

Not necessarily. For many pokémon that evolve by trading, trade evolution is only the faster of two options. Trade evolution pokémon may also evolve  by themselves, just like many others do; the only thing is that the pokémon in question must be of considerable age and battle experience to do so.

However, it’s difficult to say with this particular gengar. Its timidity may indicate that it hasn’t seen humans in years (which means it’s old and has evolved on its own) or that it’s endured trauma (which may indicate that it’s been abandoned). On the other hand, the fact that it visits you may indicate that it’s curious, which seems to imply the former (that you’re the first human it’s interacted with in a very, very long time).

Regardless of the reason behind its behavior, it wouldn’t hurt to show that you mean this gengar no harm, but certainly be cautious. While I advocate making friends with any pokémon, a gengar’s curiosity may also indicate that it’s examining you for your potential as food. Consider investing in sage before attempting to befriend this gengar.

Best of luck, anonymous!

My partner absol and I go on lots of adventures and hike and journey together, but since getting pregnant I’ve been more stationary. She’s been very Antsy lately and I assume it’s from lack of the usual amount of stimulation and exertion. I take her on walks (for as long as a pregnant lady can) and to the pokepark but that doesn’t seem to be enough. I’m not really sure what to do at this point

Do you have family or a close friend who may be able to take care of your absol now and then? Although this seems a little less than ideal (separating yourself from your partner, that is), think of it like allowing a close friend or family member to babysit a child for a day. So long as you instruct your absol to listen to her temporary caretaker and ensure that said caretaker knows how to handle your absol, letting her go on daytrips as often as possible may be enough to alleviate the restlessness that she feels.

If, however, you don’t have a trusted friend or family member, you may be able to find a trainer who specializes in “babysitting” pokémon. Alternatively, your only other option may be to reassure your absol that this change is only temporary and that when the baby is old enough, you will not only be able to resume your adventures, but you will also do it with a new companion (so long as the adventures in question aren’t dangerous for a small child).

Best of luck, and congratulations, anonymous!

Would a Gardevoir be a good pokemon to have to help with a person’s sensory issues because of their psychic power?

If we’re talking about those with hypersensitivity issues, yes, indeed!

I touched upon how pokémon with psychic abilities may assist those with sensory issues in an earlier post (http://bills-pokedex.tumblr.com/post/162059972964/are-there-any-service-pokemon-youd-recommend-for), but to put it in short, the reason why psychic-types may be popular for this kind of work is because they’re capable of either teleporting their partners to a safe location, assisting with communication if their partners become overwhelmed, projecting calming auras or leading their partners in on-the-spot grounding exercises (as an immediate coping mechanism), and/or by either detecting or predicting oncoming situations that their partners may have difficulty navigating due to their sensory issues.

That having been said, though, while gardevoir isn’t necessarily the most popular choice for this work, it is fairly popular for hypersensitive people due to the empathic abilities of its evolutionary family. With these abilities, gardevoir (as well as ralts and kirlia) are capable of detecting the subtle shifts in their partner’s emotions, and thus, they can tell when their charges are overwhelmed, sometimes even before their charges themselves realize it.

For hyposensitive people, however, gardevoir’s empathic abilities are less effective because hyposensitivity is marked by a lack of reaction to a stimulus (and you can’t quite detect an emotional reaction that doesn’t exist), so you would be far better off with a pokémon that either has quick reflexes (such as medicham) or precognitive abilities (such as gothitelle). The reason here being that it becomes much more important to assist a hyposensitive person with literally navigating the world, rather than coping with overstimulation, and these pokémon can either predict obstacles or react rapidly to them to keep their partners out of immediate harm.

My Lucario has been really aggressive, lately. He picked a fight with my Midday Lycanroc and he bit me twice when I tried to separate them. What should I do?

As with all instances of pokémon aggression, it’s impossible to answer definitively without knowing the full context. The best thing to do for the time being is to take into consideration the surrounding circumstances and work from there. Is this recent behavior, or did it start when either of your pokémon (or both) evolved? Does your lucario seem to lash out only when your lycanroc does something, or does he attack on sight? If the former, what are your pokémon doing just before your lucario attacks?

Once you figure out what might be triggering your lucario’s attacks, then you’ll be able to work out a solution by figuring out what it is, specifically, that your lucario wants.

Until then, it may be helpful to you to browse our team building tag (http://bills-pokedex.tumblr.com/tagged/team-building ), as many others have encountered situations in which their pokémon have become aggressive towards their own teammates. Perhaps one of their situations may shed some light on your own.

Best of luck, anonymous!

What are the best Pokémon to ride around on comfortably?

Any of them, if you’re creative enough.

I would say this is an inadequate answer, but I’ve seen you—a 5′09″, I’m-not-even-sure-how-heavy man—fly on a two-foot, 33-pound farfetch’d, and I get the feeling you’re not actually being facetious here. It’s times like this that I question why I agreed to edit this blog. —LH

I mean, in all seriousness, we could very well discuss what are traditionally considered to be excellent modes of transportation, but would you really want me to write another dissertation on why I don’t understand how people can consider lapras, a being covered in a hard shell that in turn is covered in spikes, is generally considered to be the height of pokémon long-distance water transport? —Bill

Point. Twice of that was enough. —LH

Yo man so the other day I got this ratata in a wondertrade. Only thing is, it’s a kanto form and I’m alolan, yo. How can I make sure this little guy is healthy? I gotta make sure no one messes with my bro, so we’ve gotta be big, buff, and ready to brawl!

Training is surprisingly the easier part of raising a standard rattata when you’re used to raising its Alolan variation, actually. Although the two look different, they are actually built similarly and use techniques that are almost identical. The only thing to keep in mind is that standard rattata lack the proficiency with the dark element that its Alolan cousins possess, meaning its strengths and weaknesses to other elements aren’t the same. (Don’t expect your new rattata to be immune to psychic assaults or resistant to other dark-type techniques, for example. On the other hand, yours will handle being bombarded by clefairy much better than your local wild rattata.)

Also note that although your rattata may learn identical techniques and possess similar battle potential, its instincts make it more inclined to exhibit slightly different behavior on the battlefield. You see, the reason why Alolan rattata are the way they are is because of a response to the invasion of small Asian yungoos. As the yungoos is diurnal and prefers the rural and forested environments to which it had been introduced, the local rattata population simply moved to urban areas and became nocturnal in order to avoid their yungoos predators entirely. Because of this change, Alolan rattata have few true predators (urban predators such as spearow, rufflet, eevee, and makuhita are also diurnal, and Alolan meowth prefer hunting sleeping prey), and as such, they’re far tamer and direct with their techniques, ironically enough. That is, Alolan rattata are used to attacking directly and in groups, so they’re bolder and somewhat more reckless. On the other hand, they’re a little more tenacious and resilient, even though their bodies aren’t physically capable of withstanding attacks more than their standard form cousins. It’s just that they’re less likely to let attacks faze them.

By contrast, standard rattata like the one you’ve received have never had the luxury of living in a predator-free environment, and on top of that, typically, rattata’s predators are far more numerous and varied in other regions than in Alola. As such, standard rattata have retained a habit of preferring sneakier attacks. They will often wait for an opportune time and strike as hard as possible, and as raticate, they’re consequently faster and far, far more aggressive. While this seems like a drawback, in actuality, this is part of the reason why rattata is considered a good companion for beginning trainers. (The other reason, of course, is their sheer abundance.) In its rattata stage, these specimens are highly intelligent and eager to work with a trainer who can not only provide them with steady food and protection but also guidance on the battlefield, and if trained into their raticate stage, they retain that sense of loyalty but become formidable battling partners. By contrast, Alolan rattata are harder to rear due to their strictly nocturnal habits, preference for socializing with other Alolan rattata above anything else, and their tamer nature.

That having been said, beyond training, caring for both forms of rattata are also incredibly similar, but you’ll likely find it easier to care for a standard one. This, again, is partly due to its dirunal nature; you won’t have to worry about adjusting your sleep schedule or finding a sturdy enclosure to keep a bored Alolan rattata. It’s also simply because although standard rattata and raticate are extremely grateful for human care, they actually don’t ask for much—meaning they don’t eat as much as Alolan raticate. (Alolan rattata eat less than a standard specimen—which is also important to know—but this is because they horde their food, which is a holdover from their instinct to bring food to raticate in the wild.) Otherwise, offer them the same type of enclosure, the same type of food, the same amount of water, the same type of litter box, even the same type of enrichment as you would normally.

Best of luck, anonymous!

how can i make my galvantula feel more comfortable when she sheds her skin?

Well, in the time leading up to her next molt (signs of this include: refusing to eat, sluggish or moody behavior, balding and/or swelling around her abdomen, dull colors), be sure she’s safe. You don’t need to give her cushioning—and, in fact, it would be best if you didn’t—but do give her a solid enclosure lined with sand. Keep an eye on her and wait for her to flip over onto her back. Once she begins molting, the process may take a few days, and it’s important to remove her old skin as quickly as possible. However, be sure to wait until she casts off her old skin completely. Don’t try to assist her in molting.

Furthermore, once her skin is removed, don’t touch her. Be sure she has plenty of water and if you must feed her, only give her soft, premade foods, as opposed to live prey. (Note that it’s more likely your galvantula will have no appetite until she’s fully recovered. You should only feed her if she tries to escape her enclosure or otherwise looks as if she’s asking for food.)

And … that’s it, really. Continue giving her water and perhaps a little food every day, and in a week’s time, she’ll be back on her feet and at your side again. Galvantula really don’t need much to feel comfortable while molting, and in fact, the less you do, the more comfortable yours will be.

But either way, I cannot stress this enough: do not touch her at any point in the molting process. This is her most fragile state, and the last thing you would want to do is inadvertently injure her. Leave her be, and she will be fine.

Okay so this is a bit weird but… my best friend has an umbreon and I have a sylveon and whenever he and I are hanging out both our Pokémon keep trying to get us closer. Like my sylveon will lace our hands together, his umbreon will nudge us to be touching when we sit next to each other. Can you tell me why they’re doing this?

I could, but that would be meddling in the romantic affairs of other people, which I’ve been told by my partner that I’m never allowed to do again.